Use the questions below to identify which Pretenses you may be implementing. This is meant as a series of suggestions that can be affirmed by reading the posts on each of the Pretenses.
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With this strategy we only link up with those who can be manipulated (to protect ourselves). While many seducers tell themselves they are manipulating others for their own good, this is seldom the case. Wh... Read More
With this strategy we attempt to define the type and nature of interaction to avoid dealing with our vulnerabilities. We use our strength of intellect to suppress investigation of emotional fears or feelings,... Read More
With this strategy we only link up with those who complement the role we wish to play, or who agree on the story we want to act out. These stories arise from favorite childhood fairy tales t... Read More
In Expectations, we keep from hurting others by compromising ourselves. If everyone is equally compromised, then we are even (at least) in our perception of the problem and the pain associated with... Read More
Improving Our Relationships Starts With Knowing What We Want.
For many of us, the idea that there are 32 warning signs can be overwhelming! From HAâ€™s perspective, at least we know the moun... Read More
Motives are building blocks for character development. When we combine certain motives together, they create and reinforce personality patterns. These can be negative, such as the Seduction archetype, ... Read More
Fourth Level Motives (such as Universal Dominion, Mutual Accomplishment, Conscious Participation) manifest as the transpersonal desire to authentically contribute to the world. They are multi-dimension... Read More