One of the most common distortions is how we externally judge individuals without accurately recognizing their inner capabilities. We can see this, not just in superficial features, but how we make assumptions about intelligence, social responsiveness and qualities of being. Unfortunately, most of us are terribly inaccurate in our unexamined attractive assessments. More importantly we tend to deny what we learn, falsely believing it is an aberration.. We become attached to superficial characteristics that distort our ability to see clearly. This leads us to repeat and compound previous mistakes over time. To neutralize these Distortions requires learning Compatibility Factors, Motives, Attractions, and Relationship Skills so they can be brought together using the Common Neutral Ground technology. The purpose of this course is to summarize how we use these technologies and why we want to engage in this manner.
Building Our Attractions
There are many types of Attractions. Each Attraction type reflects where we have denied our creativity. The more our Attractions are based on our Creative Nature, the less they distract or hurt us. Instinctive Attractions are always about outer beauty at the cost of inner quality. Intellectual Attractions are all about looking smart or clever, but denying our inner truth. Idealized Attractions are all about why someone is good for us when naturally, they are not. Creative Chemistry is about seeing these limited Attractions and recognizing that we can embody loving ourselves and, therefore, naturally attract individuals who are similar to us. This points out the primary maxim of Creative Chemistry, that the more we look for differences that complement us, the less we accept our own creative nature and do not know how to love others fully.
We get caught in patterns of trying to find the right individual based on Fears and frustrated Desires from our past. Most people try to drive forward using the rear-view mirror. This (clearly) creates consecutive accidents and produces dysfunctional results. Ironically, most people are attracted to Excitement, Intensity and Anxiety in their partners when a better partner could easily be found that has Aliveness, Wisdom and Awareness. Creative Chemistry allows us to see that Attractions are more about affirming our true nature than convincing others we are right for them. The more we attempt to convince our partner we are right for them, the more we are not being authentic or telling the truth (to ourselves or them) about what we actually want.
There is a natural progression to learn the lessons of Creative Chemistry. On an Instinctive level, we need to recognize that outer appearances do not equate to safe choices. What is safe, based on our conditioning, is the Beauty Trap where people judge us externally and we have no substance or qualities to share. On the Intellectual level, we need to realize that knowledge is not security. Otherwise, cleverness would equate to power and everyone could succeed through duplicity. Truly authentic contributions do not fall into this superficial Success Trap. Many of us sell ourselves out if we think there is an easy path to success. On the Idealized level, Creative Chemistry teaches us not to fall in love with the idea of love itself. The more we get caught in defining ourselves in terms of others, without clarifying our own distinct creative contribution, the more we express a love-hate relationship with our partners we call the Inequality Trap. We can see this when we need to blame others for things that go wrong and cannot assume responsibility for our part of the problems.
This course is about using the Higher Alignment principle of Radiant Self Unifying Love to establish a way to attract the right partners. It is about using our Life energy to affirm the energetic power in being present to our Creative Nature. In the reflection of our Being, we see in the mirror of ourselves the model of our partner. Cellular Affinity is the energetic source of physical bonding and sexual chemistry. We need to know ourselves to be able to share ourselves. This invitation is not possible unless we can stand in our Creative Nature. When we see ourselves, we are able to attract partners who can do the same. By being seen we can refine and reinforce all of our previously unsupported aspects of Self. When we operate true to ourselves, Vibratory Expansion shows up. This is when an invitation to Creative Alignment means something. It produces an intellectual chemistry we call Vibratory Response (where simularities come together). The result is the fulfillment of our Attractions as the truth becomes clear and more obvious. Finally, the third element is where we are transfigured by Love and our Co-Creative nature becomes fully revealed. This is the path of sacrificing the lower for the higher; it redeems us by the synthesis we attain in the process. We call this Vibratory Expansion. Our true Goodness emerges and we feel connected to everything.
Class Schedule: Saturday, February 24th,
Class Times (Webinar Format): 10:30am-5pm MST (with lunch break, BYO)
Price: $117 in person or $97 online, includes presentation files with class audios to all participants.
Call Sandra Jaquith (303) 832-3707 for further infomation.