We provide informed support to those who seek more traction and power in their relationships. HA clarifies which relationships will work vs. those that do not. When our relationshps do not work well, we spend more time and energy without decreasing the pain. Learn how to increase your Pleasure and Passion by choosing partners who are more aligned to your Creative Nature.
Higher Alignment has pioneered a set of tools for understanding and accepting uncomfortable similarities and differences. We use these assessment tools to identify 15 Compatibility Factors, 12 Motives, 12 Attractions and 12 Relationship Skills. This framework, when we include Common Neutral Ground, teaches us how to expand our capacity to relate to others in a harmonious and peaceful manner. It is the mission of Higher Alignment to experience our essential nature and nurture conscious relationships. The Improving Our Relationships course is particularly relevant and designed for newcomers to Higher Alignment.
Four Pretenses mislead us in relationships and promote Co-Dependence. They consume 15-20% of our energy, with the only return being a false sense of security. It is questionable whether people with lots of Pretenses can actually be present with us.
Pretenses are based on an exchange of false projected needs. They create reasons to be with someone, which eventually becomes a source of irritation. The more we identify with one or more of the Pretenses, the more we believe we have something to offer to others. Pretenses are pretentions of greatness, because we have not yet accepted our own natural greatness. They are the primary way we initiate Co-Dependent relationships.